When Alcohol Stops Feeling Like Freedom

The Alcohol Reset is a six-month guided pathway to help you understand the deeper patterns beneath drinking, alcohol and to support you in making real and lasting change.

Many people who come to this work are high-functioning, thoughtful, capable people who don’t outwardly “look” like they have a problem with alcohol, but internally know their relationship with drinking is costing them something.

Is This You?

  • You’re high-functioning, but alcohol quietly takes more than it gives.

  • You tell yourself you’ll only have one, then don’t.

  • You’re exhausted by the mental negotiation around drinking.

  • You’re successful in many areas of life, but this feels strangely hard to change.

  • You use alcohol to switch off, soften anxiety, reward yourself, or cope.

  • You’re beginning to realise drinking no longer aligns with who you want to become.

  • You don’t necessarily identify as an “alcoholic,” but you know something needs to shift.


You are not alone. And you do not need to do this through shame or willpower.

Why I do this work.

After years working in media and later founding the School of Modern Meditation, I began exploring and training in understanding the deeper psychological and nervous-system patterns beneath alcohol use - both through my own lived experience and through supporting hundreds of people in transformational work. What I saw again and again was that there were patterns and a process out of this. There were important things people simply weren’t being educated on - around alcohol and the brain, psychology, dopamine, nervous-system regulation, and neuroplasticity - and how deeply these influence behaviour, habit, coping, and change.

Sober for over a decade, my approach combines meditation, behavioural change, trauma-informed awareness, and Compassionate Inquiry to help people create lasting change without shame, rigidity, or harshness.

As the work is deeply personal and one-on-one, I only take a limited number of Resetters each year. I currently have space for two new commitments.

What is the Alcohol Reset Pathway?

The ARP is a six-month program for people who are ready to step out of the cycle of drinking, whether that cycle is daily, social, emotional, or simply habitual, and create a life that feels steadier, clearer, and more aligned. It includes:

1. Understanding You & Your Relationship With Alcohol

We begin by exploring your history with drinking, your current habits and patterns, and the role alcohol has come to play in your life emotionally, socially, psychologically, and neurologically. This creates the foundation for meaningful change.

2. A Six-Month Sobriety Commitment

The program is held within a minimum six-month sobriety container. This creates enough space for the body, brain, nervous system, and psychology to begin resetting and for deeper patterns to become visible and workable.

3. Weekly 1:1 Sessions With Structure & Support

You’ll receive weekly one-on-one sessions that follow a clear process and personalised plan. These sessions provide education, accountability, reflection, practical tools, and ongoing support as you move through the different stages of change.

4. Meditation & The Five Reset Tools

You’ll learn and explore meditation alongside the five core Reset Tools - practices that support regulation, awareness, behavioural change, emotional resilience, and reconnection with yourself beyond alcohol.

5. Working With Triggers & What Emerges

As alcohol is removed, other things often begin to surface - stress, emotions, patterns, grief, anxiety, identity shifts, relationship dynamics, or old coping mechanisms. Together, we work compassionately with what arises, helping you build the capacity to stay present, grounded, and responsive rather than reactive.

This is not about perfection or shame. It is about understanding the deeper process of change and creating a life where alcohol no longer feels necessary in the same way.

What You’re Investing In

Most people spend thousands each year on alcohol, coping mechanisms, lost energy, poor sleep, impulsive decisions, or trying to “moderate.” This is an investment in reclaiming your health, clarity, and life direction.

  • six months of weekly support

  • deep nervous-system rewiring

  • personalised guidance

  • accountability

  • meditation training

  • emotional healing

  • long-term behaviour change

Learn about:

  • “Why do I keep drinking even when I don’t want to?”

  • Whether “just a couple of drinks” still affects well-being

  • Why stopping can feel difficult even when someone intellectually wants to change

  • Alcohol’s effect on anxiety, sleep, mood and awareness

  • Shifting the conversation away from shame or labels toward understanding and consciousness work